"Let Every Heart Prepare Him Room"

It is my most favorite time of year.

Christmas carols. Church bells. Children’s laughter.

Giving.

Joy.

Hope.

Faith.

Love.

My heart is quieted, as I watch in sheer anticipation, as we count down the days.

It is here that I hear the words, “Prepare your heart.”

“Prepare you heart.”

That seems to be the theme of the season for me. “Prepare your heart.”

Every year I prepare my heart to receive the gift that God has given, anew, but this year there is a churning deep within my soul that cries out “Ilene, prepare you heart.”

What does it mean to prepare your heart? What does it truly look like?

For me it means, drawing away from the noise and busyness of life.

It means, quieting my heart before the Lord.

It means, turning all my thoughts and my affections towards Jesus.

It means, setting aside my hopes and desires and seeking after His heart.

It means, opening up my heart in spite of my failures and shortcomings and receiving once again the gift of God’s only Son.

It means, readying our hearts for the entrance of Christ.

“Prepare you heart.”

What does it means?

I believe it is a statement that will forever keep drawing us in deeper and deeper.

Author Ann Voskamp writes,

“We’re ready for Christmas, not when we have all the gifts, but when we are ready for Christ – when we’re ready to give all of ourselves to Christ.”

As one of the most sung Christmas carols of all times proclaims,

“Let every heart prepare His room”

Our hearts and lives are much like houses. There are many rooms. Some rooms are spic and span, while others are cluttered and chaotic, while still others are abandoned and boarded up.

Some days I have lots of energy and ambition and I am just cleaning from top to bottom, while other days it’s a chore to sort through my heart and I tend to dilly dally my time away and avoid the “mess”.

Praise the Lord, He is not finished with me yet and little by little with His help He shows me what needs to go and what needs to be cleaned in my heart.

“Prepare your heart.”

Every year, we deck the halls, trim the trees, and celebrate Christmas and Christ birth, but as I challenge myself, let’s not let the our outward preparations outdo our inward preparations.

I want my heart to glow with the radiance of Christ and His birth.

I want my heart to carry Christ all year long, with joy, faith, hope, and love.

“Prepare your heart.”

Oh! That our hearts would prepare Him room

.Is there room in your heart?

Jesus came once as a baby, humble and perfect. 

He was born in a stable because there was no room in the inn.

Now Jesus comes again knocking on the door of your heart… is there room for Him there?

I want to leave you with two Christmas carols. I pray that it stirs afresh a heart of gratitude and love this Christmas and that you would prepare your heart.

“Come Thou Long Expected Jesus”

1. Come, thou long expected Jesus,

born to set thy people free;

from our fears and sins release us,

let us find our rest in thee.

Israel's strength and consolation,

hope of all the earth thou art;

dear desire of every nation,

joy of every longing heart.

2. Born thy people to deliver,

born a child and yet a King,

born to reign in us forever,

now thy gracious kingdom bring.

By thine own eternal spirit

rule in all our hearts alone;

by thine all sufficient merit,

raise us to thy glorious throne.

" O Holy Night"

O Holy Night

The stars are brightly shining

It is the night of our dear Savior's birth

Long lay the world in sin and e'er pining

'Til He appeared and the soul felt its worth

A thrill of hope the weary world rejoices

For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn.

Fall on your knees O hear the angels voices.

O night divine O night when Christ was born

O night divine, O night, O night divine.

Led by the light of Faith serenely beaming,

With glowing hearts by His cradle we stand.

So led by light of a star sweetly gleaming,

Here came the wise men from Orient land.

The King of Kings lay thus in lowly manger;

In all our trials born to be our friend.

He knows our need, to our weakness is no stranger,

Behold your King! Before Him lowly bend!

Behold your King! Before Him lowly bend!

Truly He taught us to love one another;

His law is love and His gospel is peace.

Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother;

And in His name all oppression shall cease.

Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,

Let all within us praise His holy name.

Christ is the Lord! O praise His Name forever,

His power and glory evermore proclaim.

O night divine, O night, O night divine

Vulnerability... bruised, crushed & broken, yet still believing in love.

We all know it. That dirty word that so elusively creeps up on us when we are least expecting it. 

Vulnerability.

Why is it that some people, trusting and opening up, comes so easy, while with others it is a pain-stalking chore? I can look at my life thus far and see now in retrospect, who was trustworthy and who was not. 

If I could speak to young Ilene what would I say? I would tell her to guard her heart. I would tell her to be patient and cautious when trusting others, to get to really know people before telling them the deep things of her heart. 

As a child and adolescent, I had no problem believing that people only spoke the truth. I believed quite naively, that if a person was friendly and nice then that was the same as a best friend or confident. They would never betray my trust, and I them. 

Sadly, this is more often not the case, and I found that out far too well. The Lord guarded my heart in a sense that I stayed trusting but still naive to life and people, as time and time again I watched people steal my trust and leave me, feeling empty and abandoned, wondering what I did wrong. 

Tonight while watching Downton Abbey, I found myself relating to a sweet lady's maid, Anna. In the previous episode she was a attacked by a man and it left her feeling used, and dirty. She felt ashamed and would not even let her own husband near her. My heart went out to her in compassion but I also felt a similar "dirtiness" come over myself as I began to think of how people have used me. I trusted them and they used me and left me feeling "dirty". 

There was a saying I would use back in high school. I would say, "Trust is something earned from me, it is not freely given." The problem is, is that I would use that line only once in retreat. Someone would hurt me and I would put a wall and say thus. While, trust is something earned, it was not what I practiced. I trusted too much, I still trust too much. 

Why do I say all this? Because, God is not finished with me yet. I know, no one cares to hear about my relationship problems. I myself can think of a plethora of far superior topics to discuss, but sadly, this is what the Lord is putting His finger on in my life. But not just relationships, but healthy relationships. 

I have been the pitiful victim of sorry, unhealthy relationships in the past. God has brought me through and mended my heart along the way but the scars have stayed and calloused. I use to think I wasn't worthy of love because of my past relationships, as if something was wrong with me. I never had a problem knowing I am a daughter of God and the apple of His eye but I had a hard time believing I was worthy of anyone else's love. Now God is, in His loving way, scrubbing away at the callouses of my heart. It is not fun. Let me be the first to say, but the results, I know, will be worth it. 

So what does this reformation look like in my life? 

It looks like an awkward 26 year old woman stumbling her way through an introduction. Praying the person she meets speaks more then she. 

It looks like a shy 26 year old woman stepping far out of her comfort zone and being the first to say "hello" without an ounce of fear in her eyes. 

It looks like naive 26 year old woman trusting that the person she is interacting with will not turn around and gossip to someone else about her. 

But mostly, it looks like a 26 year old woman believing the Word of God and opening herself up and becoming vulnerable knowing full well that people can and will hurt her yet again, but knowing that God will be with her through it all.

I know that I was created to love and me loved. Guess what? So are you.

I found this quote and picture tonight on my news feed and it summed up what I'm trying to say perfectly.

"Don't run from love. Not everyone is going to hurt you. #vunerability"

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"There is something so beautiful about a heart that has been vulnerable, bruised, crushed and broken, yet still believes in love."

26 years... and counting

... This day comes but once a year and now and it is almost here. Each year has brought something new, some good and some pain. I look back over the past 26 of my life and I'll tell you what I see.

1. I see a little girl with bouncy red curls, so full of love and life and joy.

2. I see a little girl dancing and singing (and "bouncing") every waking moment!

3. I see a little girl singing Sandi Patty while her mother vacuums and singing "Via Dolorosa" on her swing set truly believing that if I sang loud enough people would here about Jesus and instantly get saved!

4. I see a little girl surrounded by a loving family that loves Jesus!

5. I see a little girl lost in a dream world in her room, playing Mozart and Bach on her *ahem* cassette player and waltzing around the room with her imaginary partner.

6. I see a little girl with a quick wit and and imaginary friend 'Emily' in her mirror.

7. I see a little girl give her heart... her whole heart to Jesus at 3 years old.

8. I see a little girl that never quite fit in anywhere. A girl that was the "weird kid", the "oddball", the "loner", the "misfit" but was determined to never compromise who she was.

9. I see a little girl that loves to spend most of her time (hours and hours at a time) alone in her bedroom worshiping and speaking with the Lord. 

10. I see a little girl with dreams to sing and preach before nations and see the nations of the world fall to their knees and confess "Jesus IS Lord!"

11. I see a little girl that was told "Never sing... you'll never be as good as your sister." and instead of stopping, she continued to sing, 9 years later joined a worship team and now leads worship.

12. I see a girl that opened her heart to love and was burnt over and over again, but even though she walked through the fire the Lord was walked through it with her. Now she is able to share out of her experiences and help others.

 That little girl was and is me. I look at the world around me and the people and the people that surround me and wonders from day to day, "How could I possibly be so blessed?" How can I sum up the gratitude for the last 25 years? How can thank God enough for the life I've been given. 

 All day long, I have felt this looming doom called "old age" hanging over my head. I never minded growing up before but this year it seems different. It's not sweet 16, it's not 21, no it's not even 25... I am turning 26 and though my heart still feel like that little girl, I have felt all day like I am losing her. Growing up is quite bittersweet really. Lives changes, people move on, and over time I have slowly learned over the years to let go. 

 People joke and tell me that I don't act my age. This is partially true. I don't feel 26. I feel like that little girl that loves life and God! I feel like a girl full of joy and wonder and love. I never want to lose that. I never want to stop dancing in the rain, or laughing at the moon, or singing and praising the Lord till I feel like my heart could burst!! I never want to lose that, nor will I because that little girl is not lost, she just looks a little different. 

 Time will go on, eventually I will have grey hair and wrinkles. But every hair on my head will be another lesson I have learned that I can share with others and every wrinkle on my face will be another memory that I cannot help but smile and laugh till I cry. Yes, I may be 26 on the outside but I am forever young in my heart and that is something that time cannot take from me. 

Psalm 139O LORD, you have searched me and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways. Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O LORD. You hem me in--behind and before; you have laid your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain. Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast. If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me," even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you.  For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand. When I awake, I am still with you.If only you would slay the wicked, O God! Away from me, you bloodthirsty men! They speak of you with evil intent; your adversaries misuse your name. Do I not hate those who hate you, O LORD, and abhor those who rise up against you? I have nothing but hatred for them; I count them my enemies. Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Too Much Jane...

 I am moreover undone. My mind is run rapid with thoughts and emotions that are too numerous for one to sort through, let alone pen. There are so many highs, lows, and bittersweet in betweens. My heart is full of love to share but to focus it in one direction would be quite impossible.

 Impossible you say. Test me. Try me. See that I am in fact a woman of love. Nevertheless, who could venture love me in return I dare say? None that my heart desires. Am I destined to be alone, a spinster? Am I pining my time, waiting for someone who will in fact never come or ever be? Do I live in such a fantasy that my very heart has deceived me into believing that such a man I could ever find, deserve, and love?

 My heart is hopeful, longing, pining for the match to mine God has created and destined to hold my heart. Patience has never been a virtue. Although, I do confess that my strange obsession with Jane Austen probably does not help my misfortune. In fact, it is borderline masochistic in a sense that, I purposefully inflict pain upon my heart for just a moment of blissful fantasy. Enveloped in that heavenly moment when she is found by him and she is all in all to him. That moment when on bended knee he vows his heart to be, and forever be, hers.

 What is to become of myself? Lord, do not leave me to myself. We have witnessed yet again, what I shall do when left to myself and I am afraid I am a hopeless romantic and deplorable daydreamer.

 In addition, while I endeavor to procure traits from my heroines: Anne Elliot, Elizabeth Bennett, Marianne Dashwood, and so on, I also file through their imperfections and scrutinize their very cause for actions made. I pause to investigate how I would handle such a conundrum but alas, I come to the same conclusion every time. God has a plan and a purpose for everything under Heaven.

 I do not know how I would react in such a position but I fear I would be much like Anne Elliot, in whom I see far too much of myself, so easily persuaded. However, I, as Anne so compellingly put it, “I am. I am determined. I will. And nothing, you may be sure, will ever persuade me otherwise.”

 I am quite determined, and I know despite my pitiful display of humorous emotions and lapse in reality, my God is still a God of order and He is the greatest author of all time. He wrote the greatest love story the world have ever known and He wrote it all out in His blood. Moreover, if He can create the greatest work of all time and love greater than anyone ever has or ever will love then I do believe He is more than able to finish the love story He has started for me and for you. I know I shamefully show you the depths of my heart but this I know, God has far better for me then I could ever know and the same goes for you. Do not despair. Do not let your heart be troubled. His name may not be Mr. Darcy, Captain Wentworth, Mr. Tilney, or Colonel Brandon but He has just the right person for you.

I leave you with two quotes both of which speak volumes of my heart.

“The Very first moment I beheld him, my heart was irrevocably gone.” – Jane Austen

“You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. “ - Song of Solomon 4:9

Infinities of love,

~Ilene Rose

Bittersweet

So yesterday I had a rather amusing day at work. I had a customer give me his number and tell me "I know you won't call but please... hold onto it." He was very nice. Seemed genuine. I'm guessing early/mid 30s. And not at all bad on the eyes. I will not be calling him though, despite his attempts.

So why am I telling you this? In the few moments of talking he somehow felt compelled to share a good portion of his life story with me rather randomly and then was completely taken back that he told me. Apparently, I'm the first person he's talked to in a long time. He was dealt a bad set of cards and because of it has a lot of heart ache and hurts. And I could offer him nothing but Jesus. He told me that he has a hard time wrapping his mind around a God and bad things that happen. We parted our separate ways but after the novelty wore off.

After, the flattery and feeling special and noticed for a moment I was left with the bitter after taste still lingering in my mouth. I seem to have, in my experience, a tendency to attract guys literally old enough to be my grandfather. I kid you not! And this was the first guy that wasn't over 60, married, engaged, a wiccan, atheist, a player, druggie or any other thing. He was normal.

And I thought to myself, in a moment of weakness, what is wrong with me? Why are the men that I have no interest in attracted to me and yet the kind of man I seek, a man after God's own heart... never even glances my way. And the Lord, in His mercy and love, answered me before the words could fall from my lips. He began to show me that there have been men, godly men, that have asked me out and how I have turned them down. Not because I think myself better then them, but because in my heart I knew they were not the one and I would never lead someone on intentionally.

They were nice men, very nice, but the man God has for me is still out there. Maybe I know him, maybe I do not but one thing I do know is that the lack of "attention" that I seem to be experiencing is not because I'm not good enough but because I believe the men of God are guarding their hearts and mine. God holds the key to my heart and the only way to my heart is first through His. Many have tried to pry the gate and failed. God holds the key and God alone knows who is the one to enter through the gates. I want to encourage you, do not be discouraged! God has a hope and a plan and a future for you!! And I charge you, do not awaken love!

Do not awaken love!!

Please, do not awaken love....

You were made to be loved.

It's a balmy summer night. I'm sitting alone in my room with small lamp glowing on my shoulder and though I should be working on homework or could be working on my book I just had this overwhelming urgency to write to you. Over the last few weeks the Lord has been stirring a lot in my heart and I don't know who, but someone needs to hear this.

You are not alone. You're not. Plain and simple. I know what it's like to crawl into bed night after night and just wish and pray for a pair of arms to hold you near. I know what it's like to see all of your friends get married and have children. I know what it's like to have opened your heart to love only to be let down. But, I also know that if you just let go of the pain and the longing and realize that God has a plan and purpose for your life. He does! And the moments that you waste dreaming and hoping for the future you can never get back.

The Bible says in Matthew 6:34, "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." In the Old Testament in Exodus we see that the Lord provided manna from Heaven for the Israelites everyday. They could not store up extra "just in case" the Lord forgot or ran out. As if. The Lord has already prepared for you everything you need and will ever need. He already has the perfect someone for you. And don't think that you are single because you're "too picky" or "not good enough". Those are lies from the enemy that would try to destroy you and the hope that God put within you.

You may be single for a number of reasons. God might be doing some healing, maturing, character building, faith building, or patience building in you or the one He has created for you. It could be that there are things that the Lord would have you or your significant other do before you two are joined as one. It could be that it's just not the right timing. God's time is always perfect! Therefore! "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (Phil. 4:6-7)

One more thought, I feel like some might even be thinking, "Well, maybe if I do this for God, He'll do this for me?" God does give you things based on what you do for Him. He does things for you because you are His child. He loves you and what father gives his child a rock when he asks for bread? If your earthly father gives good gifts how much more will your father in Heaven?! (Matt. 7:9-11)

Please, do not worry about your life. I was scared of being alone, but one day I realized that being single is a gift. It is only for a season. When it's summer we want autumn, when it's winter we want spring. But if we could look at the beauty of each season that God has created and enjoy it while it lasts, because it will only last but a moment. We'd begin to enjoy our lives and the waiting would be a joy and not a burden. That's what it should be, a delight.

And know this, you are never alone. You are whole all on your own. You do not need someone else to complete you. The Lord is with you and holds when you cry yourself to sleep. When your pillow is drenched in tears and you feel like you can't take it any more. God is holding you when life is on your back and you just can't shake it. God's holding you when you feel less then beautiful and feel invisible. God is holding you when everything is going great and life is wonderful. In every season, God is still God. God is still worthy. God is still holding you. And yes, God still has a plan for you. Just wait and see. Oh taste and see that the Lord is GOOD.

In Christ Alone,
~Ilene Rose

Peace. Be still. and KNOW...

There is a rustling in the spirit. I feel a changing of the tides, in my life and I cannot explain it. I cannot capsulize it. I cannot change it. There is a stirring in my heart that says "Come. Come and be still. Come and stand next to Me as I show you the plans I have for you." 

I don't know where you are at today but I know for myself I find that I can sometimes get so caught up in the joys of others and I begin to say "What about me Lord? What do you have for me?" And I hear the Lord each and every whisper to me, "Peace. Be still." And I KNOW... and I am revived in my spirit. That "yes" the Lord does have good things in store for me. 


There is something about resting that at times can be so "back burner". The thought of a break or resting sounds wonderful but then you think of the million other things that need to be done and you never rest. God created the world in 6 days and on the 7th day... He rested. He rested. There is something about resting that is so important. 

Relaxation

• gives the heart a rest by slowing the heart rate

• reduces blood pressure

• slows the rate of breathing, which reduces the need for oxygen

• increases blood flow to the muscles

• decreases muscle tension

Results of relaxation

• more energy

• better sleep

• enhanced immunity

• increased concentration

• better problem-solving abilities

• greater efficiency

• smoother emotions — less anger, crying, anxiety, frustration

• less headaches and pain

Now that was showing you the natural side of resting. How much more could resting in the spirit look like and do for your spirit? Lets try this again.

Relaxation

• gives the heart a rest by slowing down and focusing on God

• reduces stress and anxiety 

• slows the thoughts and "to do" lists down to what really matters

• increases joy, peace, perseverance, etc.

• decreases negativity 

Results of relaxation

• more joy

• better sleep (dreams and visions from the Lord)

• enhanced immunity to be able to fight the enemy

• increased concentration and clears our thoughts from distractions 

• better problem-solving abilities and discernment

• greater efficiency

• smoother emotions — less anger, crying, anxiety, frustration

• less headaches and pain (when you take care of your inner man first the outer man with feel the rewards of it)

Now how do you feel? God knew that rest was and IS essential. 

Maybe that is you today too. Could you imagine that maybe  it's not just a "I feel" "You feel" thing but a "We feel". I'm believing for a fresh wind under your wings today. I pray for rest and peace to be yours. Listen to that still small voice that says "Peace. Be still." It's not a harsh scolding but God is speaking to your spirit because you and I both need to stop and rest in Him. 

Even though my life doesn't look as I, in my finiteness (is that even a word? oh well... I made it one.), imagined it would 5 years ago, I know that God is in control. He is the Author AND finisher and I can rest and know that at the end of the day it was and is and forever will be for His glory. My life is in His hands. My heart is in His hands. My hope and my life song is in His hands. And my destiny and all I hope to be is in Him. <3 God bless you all so much! 


In Christ Alone,
~Ilene Rose

After the ball is over...

I'm sitting here alone in my room, in sort of a soft, quiet, melancholy. Remembering, and reminiscing about the days gone by. Music, dances, floodlights from my youth that almost haunt me. I miss acting. I miss singing. I miss dancing my heart out. I miss performing and making people laugh. I find so much joy and pleasure on stage. At times it feels sad to think I may never do it again. But the Lord has good things planned for me and I know in my heart... I will not be disappointed though at moments like these I feel my heart breaking a little.

You are my confidence.

It's so good to sit down, after a long and very emotionally draining day at work, and just rest. Life has a way of wearing away at us, like water beating against a rock. It's difficult, but nothing that is worth having comes easy. And there is a beauty that is only birthed out of pain; a real, full, rich life that is rooted out of triumphing over difficulty and uncertainty. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times, "It's the mountaintop times we long for but it's in the valleys that we truly grow." The times spent on the mountaintop are wonderful and refreshing our soul but we cannot live on mountaintop experiences. Christ is our rock, our confidence. When life is an uphill climb we can be confident that Christ the rock holding us strong while the currents try to pull us away. How beautiful.... Christ... our confidence. I am confident in nothing. not my flesh, not in my job, not even in the people that I love.... in Jesus Christ! HE is my one and only confidence. And I am confident that "neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries for tomorrow - not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below - indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38-39) Be confident today and make Christ YOUR confidence. God bless!!

In Christ Alone,

~Ilene Rose

"Have you seen the one that fits this glass slippers!"

Tonight I sat and watched Christian Fellowship Academy perform Cinderella's Glass Slipper and what a blessed evening it was. The casting was brilliant, the band beautiful, the costumes enchanting, and the night wonderful. After a long week at work it was so refreshing to step into a room full of smiling familiar faces. Some faces I've seen recently, some not for five or six years, but all so beautiful to me!

As I sat there and soaked up the performance though my mind was constantly drawn to two things. The first was the heart and wishes our heart makes. As I sat there listening to the cast sing about dreams and such it go me thinking about the bigger picture. I know I speak for myself when I say it can be a challenge sometimes to take your thoughts captive. It is so easy to see people around you and wish I had this or that, but have we ever stopped to think about the dreams, and the plans, and the hopes, and desires that GOD has for us?! God has so much in store for us that we don't even know... we cannot know! And just like the chest upstairs that was empty to Cinderella's awareness, God has placed a beautiful dress, beautiful plans and future, in that chest that if we only trust Him and go look we will see He is trustworthy.

And sitting there in that auditorium listening to the beautiful voices sing "Dream of Tomorrow" etc. I couldn't help but think of all the tomorrows that God has dreamed and planned for us!! How exciting is that?! We know that we have a plan and a purpose that has been fabricated by the very Creator of the world!!

Secondly, the thought that crossed my mind was during the sequence with Cinderella and the Prince. As I watched them dialog back and forth I thought about Jesus, our Prince. I know it seems a bit out on a bunny trail but my mind is a strange and curious thing. As I sat there, I began to think about how Christ, our Prince, is hot on the pursuit for us! He is not just casually asking "Have you seen my bride?" but He's looking, seeking, pursuing us!! "Is there not one that will fit this slipper!?!?!" And for a moment I got choked up because I realized that there are many that want to be royalty but have no desire to LOVE the Prince!! Did you hear me?! Let me say it one more time. There are many that want to be royalty but have NO desire to love the Prince. Lord, let it never be said that I was royalty but didn't love the Prince!!! Let me be one that was known for my LOVE for You!!

Christ is our Prince. I have nothing more to say. We will never understand how deep, and how long, and how high, and how wide the love of Christ is for us! Lord, draw us in to Your love more!! Pull us under and saturate us!! Drowned us in Your unquenchable love and let us never be the same again!!

In Christ Alone,

~Ilene Rose

Oh! The ever growing gift of a Mother!

As I have been contemplating the many gifts God has given me, the one gift that seems to rise above the rest, second to the gift of His Son Jesus Christ, is the gift of my mother. One of my deepest desires is to someday be a wife and mother and to see my mother everyday, sacrificing, loving, worshiping, praying, caring, etc. My heart grows with only more overwhelming love, admiration, and respect for her. "Her children arise and call her blessed!" Proverbs 31:28. I would say that is an understatement! I see her and my heart says "That is one blessed woman! That is what I want to be someday!" My mother to me is more then just my mother! Here are a few things my mother is to me.

She is the one who gave me life. With the staggering number of abortions every year, I look around at a world of chaos and madness and ask "Why?!" I thank GOD and my mother for giving me the GIFT of LIFE! I thank God that she saw the value of life and chose to give me life!! And not only life but showed me Christ and eternal life!!

She is my BEST friend. Through thick and thin she has stuck by me. She has watched from the sidelines cheering me on and she has run along side me with water when I was in need. She hangs out with me, jokes with me, talks about God with me, shops with me, watches movies with me, and goes on random "naughty" trips to Starbucks with me. We share each other's secrets and love each other no matter what!!

She is my role model. The one I look up too and try to model my life after. If there is anything praiseworthy or beautiful seen in me it is first because I saw it in my mother and all of my days I have set under her to learn from her so that I can someday teach my children as well.

She is my teacher. From walking and talking, homeschooling, and singing, to chores, cooking, responsibilities, character, integrity, etc. These are all things my mother has taught me. There are countless lessons learned over the past 23 years; little moments, words of wisdom, eyes watching when she was unaware, and unconditional love that has made me the woman I am today. It was because of the severity of her love for me that I pray everyday to be the kid of woman she is!!

She is my angel. Good times or bad. She is my angel. When it seems like nothing is going right she is there to cheer me up and encourage and strengthen me. She is the angel on my shoulder that when my friends have wanted to do things they knew were wrong, I could stop and say confidently that I wanted no part of it because my "angel" taught me well and was watching over me.

She is my intercessor. Boy! That woman can pray!! I have been in hard places, in dark places but let me tell you when the Devil wanted to fight off when those oven mitts and my mom was in his face fighting him tooth and nail!! She is an intercessor, a warrior, and though she is small on the outside she is a giant in the faith on the inside!! She will pray through every storm, every fight, every battle, every war, and every spiritual attack that the enemy DARES to try throwing at her. She IS the kind of woman that when her feet hit the foot in the morning the devil cries, "OH no! She's up!!"

She is my personal cheerleader. Well, besides the fact that my mother really WAS a cheerleader, she is my biggest fan! She is the one person that I know will be there for me no matter where I go or what I do and she will cheer louder then any other person because she is MY mom!! She is the one that encourages me when I feel like I cannot go on and she motivates me to be all that I can be and won't let me quit on myself!

And lastly, but certainly not least, she is MY MOM!! She is not some random mother out in the world but she is MY mother!! God gave her to ME and when He did that He gave me the greatest earthly gift He ever could! He gave me a woman that is passion about God and after His heart. He gave me a woman that always puts everyone before herself. He gave me a woman that's beauty shine s from the inside out AND the outside in!! He gave me a woman that is faithful, loyal, sacrificial, dependable, trustworthy, hard-working, etc! And He gave me a woman that is FAR beyond rubies!!! A woman that praises the Lord above all!! And THAT is why I want to be JUST LIKE HER!!!!!!

I love you, Marmee!!!

Happy Mother's Day!!

Short & Sweet

So, as of late, I have been contemplating relationships. I have been eying others, courting, dating, married, etc. I have been observing and weighing the commitment and responsibility that is gone into a relationship. The love, the sacrifice, the forgiveness, the time... and then I look at my past. I see the 'relationships' that I had and all their dysfunctions. I see how, in a sad and pathetic attempt to preserve something that was started wrong, I tried to lead the guy and push him closer to the Lord. I tried to center our relationship on God when he wanted it to be about him.

I have seen the selfish side of relationships. I have seen the ugly, the hurtful, the harmful, but God has used those times in my life as a way of helping other girls around me realize they deserve better and I deserve better then that. People don't always get me. People misunderstand me, even my own family, but the Lord spoke to me when I was young Habakkuk 2:3 "... Though he linger, wait for him. He will surely come and will not delay." I know that God has someone special for me out there, but first and foremost I am His! He is my beloved and I am His! Nothing shall separate me and my Jesus! he is my first love, my last love, and my only love. He may give me another love but only in His time and so I wait for him patiently. I am not anxious for anything but present my requests to the Lord and pray for His will in my life.

What is so short and sweet about this blog? Life is short.... singleness is shorter. Remember that it is a GIFT from God!! Enjoy it because you can never go back to these days! And sweet! This life is full of sweet things but if we focus on "When am I going to meet him/her?!" "When am I going to get married?!" When will I feel like my life is starting?!" then we will miss every sweet moment that was a gift, a treat, for us from God! Enjoy singleness! It's short and sweet!!

God bless!!

In Christ Alone,

~Ilene Rose

This Is The Day The Lord Has Made!

I woke up this morning and to my surprise the sky was overcast.

"This is the day the Lord has made."

I finally have a day off and my room is in a state of disarray.

"This is the day the Lord has made."

I have a list of things to do today.

"This is the day the Lord has made."

I have to sort through all my summer clothes and pack away the winter.

"This is the day the Lord has made."

There are bills, grocery lists, laundry to do, etc.

"This is the day the Lord has made."

There will be days when it seems nothing gets done. Laundry piles up, the to-do list gets longer instead of shorter, but one thing remains constant... God. He is faithful and constant. He is present and not a spectator but a participator in our lives! He works all things together for good and is loving and merciful towards all.

There will be days that are overcast, even dark nights of the soul. There will be valleys, shadows, and storms in our lives but never forget that God is for us. Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ and everyday we wake up to see He is faithful. We are alive, breathing, full of life in the Spirit! This truly is an amazing day!! Let us never take one day for granted.

God bless your day!!

In Christ Alone,

~Ilene Rose

For the sake of updating

Well, for the sake of updating... that seems to be all I'm coming up with. Have you ever stopped to contemplate the phenomenon of thoughts or lack thereof? I mean seriously, can anyone number the thoughts a person has in a day? Or answer the questions and longings of one's heart? Can a person not think something and where do the thoughts so undesired appear from? And on that note what of dreams? Is it something we eat, or watch before bed, or the deepest intents of the heart, or are all dreams God given or does He use the dreams of our leftover meatloaf? hmm... If I have said it once I have said it a million time, "Life is a complex coil of chaos and questions."

There are so many questions that remain unanswered. There will always be things we as finite humans, mere creations, will never understand. But as creations we can look to the Creator, our Creator, and follow His leading. Listening to His voice, obeying His commands, searching out how high and how wide and how deep His love for us is. Then one day, when all this passes away, we will see Him in full, in all His glory and splendor and the questions that occupied our minds before will fall flat before Him and the only question on our mind is how long is eternity.... because it'll never be long enough! :) God bless you all!!

In Christ Alone,

~Ilene Rose

This is your life...

So I'm sitting up, it's 1:21AM and I've got lots of thoughts running thought my mind. I know, I'm already off to a bad start. haha... Thoughts seemed to get backed up in my mind, like there is a small passage for them to filter though and after so long everything comes to an abrupt stop when everything plugs the filter. Why am I telling you this? Because, I know I'm probably not the only person that has issues going in and around my life.

Bills, relationships, future, hopes, dreams, disappointments, the list is never-ending. There is one thing that in the midst of the world-wind around me though that I seem to always look to, almost to see if somehow it would have changed, is God. And once again, I'm overcome with the peace of knowing Him and the consistency that He has holds over my life and not only my life but my future and then entire world! I am reminded that once again, He is great and I am small. He is the potter and I am the clay. He is the Creator and I, the creation. He is the author and I am His story. Nothing that happens in my life surprises Him but He knew and knows everything will happen. He has searched me and He knows me. He knows when I lay down and when I rise. He knows when I am rejoice and when I mourn. If the Father knows me and every hair upon my head, and knows the plans of good things He has for me, then what do I have to fear?

I know there are many things in my life I can do nothing about but I know that God knows everyone of them and He has already answered them. So right now I want to believe God and thank Him in advance for helping me get out of debt. I want to thank God for the ministry He is going to place me in and for the ministry I am in right now everyday. I want to thank God for my family and friends. I want to thank God for the amazing man of God that He has for me and that he will find me in God's timing. I want to thank God for His unswerving devotion to me. And I want to thank God for helping me be as unyielding to Him as He is towards me. :) Amen!!

So yes, this was a lot of mumbo-jumbo but it was all from my heart. There are a lot of unanswered questions but for now I think I'm okay with not knowing. As long as I know God knows. ;) God bless everyone!!

The Melody Within

Did I not say that I was terrible at journeling? Ok, I do not feel so terribly wicked then. Well, the last time I blogged I was entering my senior year at college. Suprise. I have since then Not only graduated but was one of ten students in my graduating class enducted into the Elim Fellowship 'assembly' and I am a credential holder through them. What a blessing, honor, responsibilty, and humbling experience. God has been doing a lot of cleaning and changes in my life. I'm working fulltime at a job that I'm under high amounts of stress constantly and am losing weight. I am leading worship at my church, teaching piano lessons, organizing and putting on a talent show at my church amd am in charge of the children's Christmas choir. but none of these things is what I wish to speak to you about. I wish to tell you a story. This story is a song about a melody. A melody locked deep within the recesses of the heart. A musicbox within. You cannot hear the music till you open the musicbox and hear the music fill the air. "There was a melody, locked deep inside of me but now it's free, it found a place embraced by harmony, sweet harmony. Love more then anything, teaches our hearts to sing. Only love can break the spell. Now I know very well, the love within myself."
Everone has a melody, a musicbox within themselves that God has placed there. We cannot see it or touch but when we look deep within and open the musicbox we see and can hear the beautiful song within. God has designed each one of us with a song of our own that only we possess. Others may try to imitate our song but no one can match it and without our song the world would be incomplete. Love teaches us the song of our heart. It brings us to life and in a sense as the song says "breaks the spell". There is no magic, no enchanted spell, there is only a fallen world in need of hope, love, and the love story of our Savior. Share the story, share the song, the melody within. Break the spell and discover the love within yourself. God bless!

John 15:12-13, "My command is this, Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no man then this; that he lay down his life for his friends."

Senioritice

Well... I realized that I'm really not very good at this whole blogging thing, but I'm hoping to get better at it. We'll see. ;)
Well, I'm back at college and I'm a Senior. *pausing for a moment to take that in* I still cannot believe how far I've come and how far I still have yet to go. I think of Phil. 3 where Paul's talking about pressing on towards the goal to win the prize. I have never given it much thought but consistently throughout my life the one thing that's kept me moving forward has been the ever-present, ever-glorious, prize set before my eyes. Not that I am perfect but that I press on in spite of myself knowing that nothing this world holds, holds a candle to the glory that shall be revealed!! This revelation of Christ keeps me pressing on... to Him. So, he although I've been through the fire... I have not been burned, and though I've been been through the storm.... I have stood firm and someday I will see Jesus face-to-face and I'll forever be in His presence worshiping Him who is worth forever and ever!! Amen!!

Pause to Ponder

Today has been one of those days. You know the ones I speak of, the ones that start impossibly early and drag right from the get go. The ones that no matter how hard and fast and furious you work... nothing seems to be getting accomplished. But then I paused for a moment and thought about what all this was for - the jobs, the obligations, the deadlines, and endless lists of chores to do. I then realized or should say was reawakened the the revelation that everything I do is setting up my life before my eyes. The administration I find myself wading in, the dictating, the working, the submitting, even the mistakes I make and am learning from... they all are preparing me for my life. I'm at present completing my senior internship for college and in every detail, vast and menial, is preparing me in some way, shape, or form for all that God has prepared for me to do. There are no words, for I cannot see what the future holds, but yet I look to the horizon and to the destiny God has for me and know that I will not be disappointed. There is much on my heart and present on my mind but I will not but pray these things into exsistence and have fun along the way! :) God bless and enjoy the ride!!

A Clean Slate

A clean slate.

A fresh start.

A new page.

And a new heart.

A new outlook,

On a new chance at life.

A fresh beginning,

All opens tonight.

I cannot express

This presence I feel

But hold it out

For the world to reveal.

For alone I chose my life to be

For I thought no one cared to care about me

Until just today did I first step out

And place myself in a vunerable state and shatter my world of doubt.

I chose to be a friend though no friend was found

And in the least likely of places I was not let down.

People have hurt me time and again

They've lied and they cheated and taunted my name.

I've been beaten and bruised and broken and bossed

I've been kicked and trampled and scarred me and mocked

But something inside was still crying for friends

I was sick of loneliness and self-defense

I need someone though I said I did not

And it took all I lost to see all I've got.

Thank you to all who I am so blessed to call friend!

~Ilene Rose